Integrating attachment theory, polyvagal theory, family systems, and evidence-based couples therapy frameworks
Most couples therapy uses ONE approach—Gottman Method OR Emotionally Focused Therapy OR Attachment Theory. Our assessment integrates ALL of them plus Polyvagal Theory (nervous system), Family Constellations (systemic patterns), Internal Family Systems (parts work), Somatic Experiencing (body-held trauma), and 11 more validated frameworks.
This means we don't just identify communication problems. We evaluate nervous system co-regulation, attachment wounds, family-of-origin patterns, power dynamics, trauma responses, and somatic holding patterns—giving you a complete picture no single-framework assessment can provide.
40+ years of research identifying patterns that predict relationship success or divorce with 90%+ accuracy. We assess criticism, contempt, defensiveness, stonewalling, and repair attempts.
Revolutionary nervous system science explaining co-regulation, voice changes during conflict, and why some couples shut down while others fight. We evaluate autonomic state shifts.
Attachment-based couples therapy showing how adult bonding needs drive relationship patterns. We assess emotional accessibility, responsiveness, and engagement.
Framework showing blame as expression of unmet needs. We evaluate communication patterns and ability to express needs without criticism.
Addresses grandiosity vs shame dynamics, clean ownership of behavior, and adaptive silence. We assess power dynamics and accountability patterns.
Reveals how family loyalty conflicts and reenactment of ancestral patterns affect current relationships. We assess systemic entanglements.
Also includes: Dr. Murray Bowen (Bowen Family Systems), Dr. Richard Schwartz (Internal Family Systems), Dr. David Schnarch (Crucible Therapy), Dr. Stan Tatkin (PACT), Dr. Pat Ogden (Sensorimotor Psychotherapy), Dr. Janina Fisher (Structural Dissociation), Dr. Peter Levine (Somatic Experiencing), Dr. Dan Wile (Collaborative Couples Therapy), and more.
Gottman's Four Horsemen + Repair Attempts
Nervous System Co-regulation (Polyvagal)
Attachment Patterns (Secure, Anxious, Avoidant)
Pursuer-Distancer Dynamics (Bowen)
Family-of-Origin Patterns (Hellinger)
Inner Child Wounds (IFS)
Communication Patterns (NVC)
Power Dynamics (Real)
Somatic Holding (Body-held tension)
Differentiation Capacity (Schnarch)
Conflict Resolution Styles
Emotional Accessibility (EFT)
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